Billie Eilish’s romantic life has been a frequent topic of public discussion, particularly after her high-profile relationship with Jesse Rutherford, which became one of the most talked-about events in her personal history.
Although the two confirmed their split in May 2023, the narrative around their relationship continues to captivate the media and her fans.
The pair, who were romantically involved from October 2022 to May 2023, first sparked rumors when they were spotted together at a vegan restaurant, leading to their public outings soon after.
Billie and Jesse made their social media debut as a couple by posting photos in Halloween costumes, and later attended the LACMA Art + Film Gala 2022, where they wore matching Gucci-designed outfits that played on the theme of bedtime wear.
Billie Eilish and Jesse Rutherford (Credit: YouTube)
While their relationship sparked intrigue due to their 10-year age gap, Billie’s brother and creative partner, Finneas, defended their romance, noting that Jesse and Billie shared a deep respect for each other and a strong connection. This period of Billie’s life was marked by her expression of happiness in the relationship.
In interviews, Billie openly praised Jesse, calling him “the hottest f—ing f—er alive,” and jokingly joked about her own excitement at the relationship.
Despite the age gap, fans and close sources emphasized how well the two seemed to get along, with Finneas expressing that he was pleased to see his sister happy, and noting the chemistry they shared.
However, in May 2023, their relationship ended, and Billie made it clear in a fan Q&A on Instagram that they were no longer together. She assured fans that despite the breakup, they remained “very very good friends only” and that Jesse would always be one of her favorite people.
It was clear that there were no hard feelings, and Billie even referred to him as “my homie forever.” She explained that even though their romantic relationship ended, their bond was far from severed, a sentiment that shows the mature and supportive nature of their connection.
Billie Eilish’s candidness about her personal life continued when she opened up about her sexuality in 2023.
In a cover story, Eilish reflected on how her sexuality had often been a topic of speculation, though she had never publicly discussed it in such detail before.
Billie Eilish (Credit: YouTube)
While attending Variety’s Hitmakers event in December 2023, where she was awarded Film Song of the Year for her song “What Was I Made For” from Barbie, Billie was asked if her cover story was intended to be her “coming out” moment.
She laughed at the question, explaining that she had not planned for it to be such a momentous declaration.
Billie shared that she never saw her sexuality as something that needed to be announced—she didn’t believe in labels, expressing that she had simply existed and loved who she loved.
“I’m like, why can’t we just exist?” she said, emphasizing her desire for people to embrace her identity without making it a spectacle.
Despite her nonchalant approach, she concluded her comments with a clear statement:
“But yeah, I am for the girls.”
Eilish also explored the topic of her attraction to women in more depth. She admitted that she had been in love with women for her whole life, but it was only in recent years that she fully understood and embraced that part of herself.
She spoke candidly about how her feelings toward women evolved into a deeper understanding of her sexual desires.
In fact, her latest album, Hit Me Hard And Soft, includes a track called “Lunch,” which delves into the nuances of her attraction to women.
Billie described the song as something that helped her come to terms with her feelings. She noted that part of the song was written before she had any physical experiences with women, while the rest of it was written after she fully realized what she wanted.
Her frankness about her experiences and growth, including how she once didn’t understand her feelings but later came to the realization that she “wanted my face in a vagina,” was a surprising and bold expression of her evolving identity.
Billie’s reflections on her sexuality also extended to her feelings toward femininity. In interviews, she acknowledged that she has always had deep connections with women, from family members to friends, and she expressed both love and admiration for them.
However, she admitted to feeling intimidated by their beauty and presence. She described herself as a “girls girl,” someone who deeply appreciates women and their various forms of strength, but she also said that her own self-perception made it difficult to fully relate to them.
Still, she made it clear that she was drawn to women not just emotionally but physically. When asked during the Hitmakers event if she still found women intimidating, she jokingly responded,
“I’m still scared of them but I think they’re pretty.”
This comment revealed Billie’s playful side, showing that while she may be unsure or even frightened by her feelings, she is still unapologetically herself.
In addition to her personal growth, Billie’s dating history includes a brief, but widely publicized relationship with Matthew Tyler Vorce, whom she dated in 2021.
The relationship ended in May 2022, with Vorce addressing the breakup publicly through Instagram stories, denying rumors that he had cheated on Billie and affirming that relationships sometimes end without any drama.
The fallout from the breakup was also marked by intense fan speculation and online harassment directed at Vorce, which led him to defend himself against false rumors.
He made it clear that no one had cheated and condemned the toxicity of online rumors that spiraled out of control.
For Billie, this chapter in her life seemed to pass quietly but left its mark, and she appeared to take a break from the public eye following her split from Vorce.
The last few years of Billie’s personal life have shown a shift in how she relates to her emotions, relationships, and identity.
In the aftermath of her breakup with Jesse Rutherford, Billie has emphasized how she values her friendships and personal growth over any romantic relationship.
Her recent comments on sexuality reflect her desire for people to see her as she truly is, without labels or expectations.
She remains focused on her career, continuing to release music that resonates with her evolving identity.
Whether it’s through her candid exploration of her desires on Hit Me Hard And Soft or her reflections on love and attraction, Billie is proving that she is unafraid to confront and express every facet of her complex self.
