Jennifer Lopez ended her relationship with Ben Affleck in April, with divorce proceedings initiated in August. Recently, the singer shared her perspective on dating during an interview with Interview magazine, where she clarified that she’s not currently seeking a romantic partner.
After spending her summer in the Hamptons focused on personal growth following what she described as her life falling apart, Lopez expressed that she’s embracing independence.
Embracing independence as Lopez sail through life on her own terms (@jlo/Instagram)
When comedian Nikki Glaser suggested she might now have higher standards for future partners, Lopez responded firmly, stating, “There’s no new bar because I’m not looking for anybody. How’s that?” She further emphasized that she’s enjoying her journey of being self-reliant.
During their conversation, Lopez reflected on her newfound outlook as a single woman. She explained that people often believe they need a partner to feel complete or happy, but she’s learned otherwise.
“It took me 30 years to realize that I don’t need someone else to make me whole,” the singer shared. This perspective, according to Lopez, marks a personal milestone as she continues to sail through life on her own terms.
Later in the interview, Lopez addressed the pain she experienced following her divorce. She admitted it was an incredibly challenging period, saying, “It almost took me out for good.” However, she now views the experience as a critical turning point in her life.
Reflecting on the lessons learned, she expressed gratitude for the growth that emerged from such a difficult time, noting, “I needed it, even if it felt like the universe had to hit me over the head to make me understand.”
Lopez acknowledged that she doesn’t have everything figured out but is excited about her journey of self-discovery. She explained that this summer was about proving to herself that she could thrive independently.
“I needed to go off and be on my own to show myself that I could do it,” she said, emphasizing the importance of self-sufficiency and personal well-being before pursuing future relationships.
When asked about the difficulty of the breakup, Lopez didn’t shy away from admitting the emotional toll. She described the experience as lonely, unfamiliar, and heartbreaking but emphasized the importance of confronting those emotions head-on.
Jennifer Lopez focuses on personal growth after parting ways with Ben Affleck (@jlo/Instagram)
She explained that sitting with such feelings allowed her to realize her ability to find joy and fulfillment within herself. Lopez shared, “Being in a relationship doesn’t define me, and happiness has to come from within.”
Discussing her ongoing personal growth, Lopez highlighted that learning and evolving are lifelong processes. She acknowledged that she’s made mistakes in the past but views them as opportunities for deeper understanding.
“Life keeps testing you to see if you’ve really learned your lesson,” she remarked, adding that these challenges have helped her build resilience and clarity about what she wants moving forward.
Lopez also touched on the importance of loving oneself fully, including flaws, and establishing healthy boundaries in relationships. She noted that true love involves support and mutual growth.
“Someone who truly loves you will help you heal and become better while respecting your boundaries,” she concluded, emphasizing her belief in the transformative power of secure and understanding partnerships.
