The arrival of their first child, son Phoenix Barron Hilton Reum, via surrogate in January 2023 marked a remarkable moment for Hilton and Reum. This joyous announcement followed Hilton’s earlier revelation about their in vitro fertilization efforts that began in 2021.
Almost a year later, on Thanksgiving Day, Hilton shared the exciting news of their second child, a baby girl named London, further expanding their family.
Though the pair have been acquainted since their mid-20s, it wasn’t until late 2019 that they began their romantic journey. Their wedding in November 2021 took place over three extravagant days, celebrating their love and commitment to each other.
Paris Hilton’s life transforms as she welcomes two beautiful children into the world (@parishilton/Instagram)
Shortly after their nuptials, Hilton expressed her deep connection to Reum, saying, “I feel like Carter and I are puzzle pieces getting connected. I never thought I’d meet a man like him, who loves me for Paris and not Paris Hilton,” during an interview with PEOPLE.
From the luxurious wedding festivities to the joy of parenthood, Hilton and Reum’s relationship is filled with memorable moments.
November 2019: The Reconnection
Details about how Reum and Hilton first crossed paths in their twenties remain unclear; however, they reconnected in 2019 through a Thanksgiving invitation from Reum’s sister, Halle Hammond. This gathering rekindled their friendship, leading to a spark between them.
Hilton shared her excitement with PEOPLE, stating, “I’ve known him for 15 years. Then [Reum’s sister Halle Hammond] invited us to Thanksgiving, and we just had this incredible chemistry. We had our first date and haven’t spent a night apart since. It’s pretty amazing.”
January 5, 2020: A Kiss at the Golden Globes Afterparty
Romantic speculation arose when Hilton and Reum were spotted kissing at a 2020 Golden Globes afterparty hosted by Warner Bros. and InStyle. A source confirmed their relationship to PEOPLE, stating, “They are dating and happy.”
April 29, 2020: Going Instagram Official
Hilton made their relationship public by sharing an adorable photo of them kissing on Instagram. In her heartfelt message, she expressed her love, saying, “Happy Anniversary my love. My favorite thing to do is make memories with you. Your kisses are magical.⚡️ I love being yours and knowing you’re mine. 😍😍.”
September 3, 2020: Hilton Reflects on Quarantine Life with Reum
Hilton described the silver lining of quarantine as the time spent with Reum, stating, “This is the first time I’ve actually been forced not to travel and stay home. The silver lining is that I get to be with my pets and my boyfriend. We have gotten so close.
The amount of time we’ve had together is what would normally take five years!” She also mentioned her desire for a relationship similar to her parents’, admiring their loyalty and friendship.
December 5, 2020: Celebrating One Year Together
In a touching Instagram tribute for their first anniversary, Hilton compiled a video montage showcasing their memories over the past year, accompanied by her 2006 track “Heartbeat.”
January 26, 2021: Discussing IVF
During an interview on The Trend Reporter with Mara podcast, Hilton shared her IVF journey with Reum, revealing their desire to have twins.
She credited her friend Kim Kardashian for informing her about the process, stating, “I’m happy that she told me that advice and introduced me to her doctor.” Hilton noted the challenges but felt it was worthwhile with Reum by her side, adding that he always made her feel like a princess.
February 9, 2021: Support During Testimony
As Hilton testified about her experiences at Provo Canyon School to the Utah Senate Judiciary Committee, Reum stood by her side for emotional support.
A source disclosed, “Paris is so grateful that Carter joined her on the trip to Utah. She was so nervous to get up there and say her testimonial, but having him by her side made her feel much more comfortable.”
February 10, 2021: A Unique Birthday Gift
For Reum’s birthday in 2021, Hilton presented him with a life-sized portrait inspired by a photo taken by friend Paris Jackson. A source revealed it was a nod to their shared love for the show Schitt’s Creek.
February 13, 2021: A Romantic Proposal
Reum proposed to Hilton on a private island during her 40th birthday celebration, with her sister Nicky Hilton and Reum’s brother Courtney in attendance.
Hilton reflected on the past year, saying, “As someone who traveled constantly, I had a chance to stay home and reevaluate what was important to me. My relationship and the time I spent with Carter was a gift.”
Reum shared his feelings, stating, “I have gotten the unique opportunity to get to know the real Paris on a daily basis just the two of us during these past 15 months, and I couldn’t be more excited and lucky to have her as my future wife and partner.”
To commemorate their love story, Hilton filmed a music video for her song “Heartbeat,” expressing her joy in finally finding true love.
February 21, 2021: Sharing Their Engagement Story
During the launch of her podcast This is Paris, Hilton reminisced about the details of her engagement, revealing her excitement and happiness during the proposal. She also mentioned her intention to hyphenate her last name, expressing pride in her name.
March 1, 2021: Engagement Ring Details
While on On Air with Ryan Seacrest, Hilton shared the story of her stunning engagement ring, which was inspired by the Grand Palais in Paris and designed by Reum with jeweler Jean Dousset. She affectionately referred to it as “The Paris,” highlighting its unique design featuring diamonds and a sapphire.
March 1, 2021: Nicky Hilton’s Blessing
Before the proposal, Reum sought Nicky Hilton’s blessing. During a conversation on Hilton’s podcast, Nicky recounted how Reum approached her at lunch to ask for her approval to marry Paris, to which she quickly agreed.
May 13, 2021: Announcing a New Docuseries
Hilton’s return to reality TV was marked by the announcement of her docuseries Paris in Love, which she described as showcasing her happy ending. Speaking to the Wall Street Journal, she expressed her openness and pride in sharing her life experiences with fans.
June 22, 2021: A Change in Priorities
While previously focused on financial success, Hilton revealed a change in her aspirations during the Just for Variety podcast, stating her newfound desire for family over wealth.
From friends to parents Paris Hilton and Carter Reum’s journey is a fairytale (@carterreum_official/Instagram)
She acknowledged her past emphasis on money as a means of freedom and independence but now prioritizes happiness and love in her life.
October 8, 2021: Joint Bachelor and Bachelorette Party
Hilton and Reum celebrated their upcoming nuptials with a joint bachelor and bachelorette party in Las Vegas. The festivities included an immersive experience at Area 15 and a grand finale at Zouk Nightclub, where guests received themed tote bags and rosé.
November 11, 2021: The Wedding Ceremony
The couple exchanged vows on November 11, 2021, in an extravagant ceremony at Hilton’s late grandfather’s former Bel Air estate, meticulously organized by Mindy Weiss. Hilton wore three stunning outfits during the event, including two Oscar de la Renta gowns and one by Galia Lahav.
Celebrities such as Kardashian, Ashlee Simpson, Nicole Richie, and Paula Abdul were among the star-studded attendees. The celebration featured a lavish dinner menu, including a caviar station and a towering six-foot wedding cake.
November 12, 2021: The Importance of Their Wedding Date
Hilton revealed her intention to marry on November 11, or “11:11,” as it has always held special meaning for her. She described this date as a reminder to wish and embrace miracles, emphasizing its representation of their love story.
